Troubled Relationship, what to do? Part II?
troubled asked:
Here is a little more background. Let me clarify that I never wanted to install the software to begin with but I had to go with my gut feeling. She was saying things like how she didn’t know he had feelings for her and how she has never been kissed so softly before. As for the guy at work she asked him out to lunch and “sent kisses” on a comment on a picture on his myspace. She thinks I cheated on her because she thinks I brought the person into our home and had this person tamper with her lingerie and shoes. She also found one of our condom wrappers which she insists was not from us. I feel counselling is great idea, but neither of us have health insurance. She insists that she loves me and wants to be in this relationship. I have told her that I did not cheat on her and that I am committed to her and this relationship. She keeps insisting that I don’t love her and that I don’t care for her. Any more advice would be greatly appreciated.
Joseph
Here is a little more background. Let me clarify that I never wanted to install the software to begin with but I had to go with my gut feeling. She was saying things like how she didn’t know he had feelings for her and how she has never been kissed so softly before. As for the guy at work she asked him out to lunch and “sent kisses” on a comment on a picture on his myspace. She thinks I cheated on her because she thinks I brought the person into our home and had this person tamper with her lingerie and shoes. She also found one of our condom wrappers which she insists was not from us. I feel counselling is great idea, but neither of us have health insurance. She insists that she loves me and wants to be in this relationship. I have told her that I did not cheat on her and that I am committed to her and this relationship. She keeps insisting that I don’t love her and that I don’t care for her. Any more advice would be greatly appreciated.
Joseph
April 14th, 2008 at 7:42 pm
If she really loves you then she will quit flirting with other men and focus on your relationship. I **** my-space. There is no such thing as “harmless flirtation” when you are in a serious relationship. You can’t convince someone of your loyalty if they have already made up their mind that you have been cheating. It stinks and it hurts but maybe if you decide to move on she will see that she was wrong.
April 17th, 2008 at 1:49 am
Klingt wie shes Angst zu verlassen. Sie fing ihre roten Händen Flirten und Fortgeschrittene auf andere Menschen .. Ich würde entweder sagen, dass ihre Beziehungen brauchen Vertrauen, und sie hat aufgeschlüsselt, dass oder dass sie brauchen, um erfolgreich zu werden. * Ich bin ihr in einem anderen Ort und Zeit .. Ich habe mir boyfreinds Vertrauen aufzubauen, damit I manytimes können, zählen nicht, dass hoch. Ich weiß nicht, dass ich es tun, denn ich bin nicht glücklich mit ihm, oder weil ich werde nicht zulassen, dass mich glücklich zu sein. Ich denke, dass ihr am besten, wenn Sie beide gehen getrennte Wege Ihr so dass Sie keine Notwendigkeit, sich mit dem Drama und nicht mit dem BS mehr. Viel Glück!
April 18th, 2008 at 5:22 am
y permítanme decir si el ser honesto y nunca ha engañado por su entonces condón que encontró fue la que utilizan para engañar a usted with.look está claro que no, no te amo más o ella tiene un problema de engaño. mi sugerencia de que sería sentarse en ella y dígale que usted no engañar y usted sabe que no, por lo que no debe confesar que ella sea aún trampas o ha engañado y prometo no hacerlo de nuevo o dispuesta a salir . mirar si está tan obsesionado con acuseing entonces usted es culpable y quiere que usted se siente pensar que no, no me her.trust amor, he hecho la suciedad y la suciedad han hecho para mí.