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	<title>Comments on: Have been in troubled relationship, then my live-in bloyfriend had a heart attack. Help?</title>
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		<title>By: alanrox</title>
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		<dc:creator>alanrox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jul 2008 19:22:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>je nodig hebt om iemand te ontmoeten alleen voor het afhandelen van uw persoonlijke behoeften, iedereen heeft iemand nodig prsonally gewoon, je niet hoeft te worden in de liefde ie &#039;em je soms gewoon iemand nodig om te zorgen voor business!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>je nodig hebt om iemand te ontmoeten alleen voor het afhandelen van uw persoonlijke behoeften, iedereen heeft iemand nodig prsonally gewoon, je niet hoeft te worden in de liefde ie &#39;em je soms gewoon iemand nodig om te zorgen voor business!</p>
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		<title>By: Holly s</title>
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		<dc:creator>Holly s</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jul 2008 03:39:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ga zitten &amp; vraag hem enkel waarom hij… vertelt hem u zo ongelukkig is denkt hij met iemand zou kunnen moeten spreken omdat hij zo ongelukkige &amp;amp schijnt; gedeprimeerd. als hij won&#039; t liet hem toen enkel u kennen can&#039; t houdt levend als dit omdat uw niet gelukkige &amp; samen uw verlaagt enig elkaar… als hij van u he&amp;#039 houdt; ll poging &amp; begin dat sommige pogingen maakt om dingen beter te maken als niet u can&#039; t voelt schuldig voor wat met hem gebeurt of zijn toekomstig… u heeft het leven om met hem te leven of zonder hem verdient iedereen gelukkig te zijn!!! de hoop u allebei vindt liefde &amp; geluk goed geluk!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ga zitten &amp; vraag hem enkel waarom hij… vertelt hem u zo ongelukkig is denkt hij met iemand zou kunnen moeten spreken omdat hij zo ongelukkige &#038;amp schijnt; gedeprimeerd. als hij won&#039; t liet hem toen enkel u kennen can&#039; t houdt levend als dit omdat uw niet gelukkige &amp; samen uw verlaagt enig elkaar… als hij van u he&#039 houdt; ll poging &amp; begin dat sommige pogingen maakt om dingen beter te maken als niet u can&#039; t voelt schuldig voor wat met hem gebeurt of zijn toekomstig… u heeft het leven om met hem te leven of zonder hem verdient iedereen gelukkig te zijn!!! de hoop u allebei vindt liefde &amp; geluk goed geluk!!!</p>
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		<title>By: chubbiguy40</title>
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		<dc:creator>chubbiguy40</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 15:19:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tenzij u bereid bent om controle van de verhouding over te nemen, dan moet u zo spoedig mogelijk weggaan en nooit terug kijken.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tenzij u bereid bent om controle van de verhouding over te nemen, dan moet u zo spoedig mogelijk weggaan en nooit terug kijken.</p>
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		<title>By: sfjadeia</title>
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		<dc:creator>sfjadeia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 20:57:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You want to leave, so leave.  He is doing this to himself, not you.  You have tried to help him all along.  You can&#039;t make yourself responsible for the things he does.  I know you feel guilty but you have a life too.  Talk to his family and have them come in to help.  Gradually, just start taking interest again in what you used to do and let the family begin taking care of him.  You don&#039;t have to do it all at once, but little by little.  If you want to remain friends, let him know, but you shouldn&#039;t let yourself become his mother when he doesn&#039;t even want to help himself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You want to leave, so leave.  He is doing this to himself, not you.  You have tried to help him all along.  You can&#8217;t make yourself responsible for the things he does.  I know you feel guilty but you have a life too.  Talk to his family and have them come in to help.  Gradually, just start taking interest again in what you used to do and let the family begin taking care of him.  You don&#8217;t have to do it all at once, but little by little.  If you want to remain friends, let him know, but you shouldn&#8217;t let yourself become his mother when he doesn&#8217;t even want to help himself.</p>
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		<title>By: dVine</title>
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		<dc:creator>dVine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 23:51:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>God forbid but what if he dies? Then you&#039;d live the rest of your life in guilt too. He doesn&#039;t want or need you honey so leave him. It&#039;ll be hard cos you obviously love him... but has it occurred to you that it might be  your refusal to leave him might be the cause of his actions? depression et al? Maybe he doesn&#039;t know how to tell you it&#039;s over and so is reacting the only way he knows. And you, instead of getting the point, unfortunately, are clinging. 
&quot;If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back then he&#039;s yours. If he doesn&#039;t, then he was never yours.&quot;
Sorry to be so hard on you but thats the way the cookie crumbles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>God forbid but what if he dies? Then you&#8217;d live the rest of your life in guilt too. He doesn&#8217;t want or need you honey so leave him. It&#8217;ll be hard cos you obviously love him&#8230; but has it occurred to you that it might be  your refusal to leave him might be the cause of his actions? depression et al? Maybe he doesn&#8217;t know how to tell you it&#8217;s over and so is reacting the only way he knows. And you, instead of getting the point, unfortunately, are clinging.<br />
&#8220;If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back then he&#8217;s yours. If he doesn&#8217;t, then he was never yours.&#8221;<br />
Sorry to be so hard on you but thats the way the cookie crumbles.</p>
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		<title>By: aresharmony</title>
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		<dc:creator>aresharmony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 04:58:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Probeer kunt u terecht voor professionele hulp en hebben theraphy sessies bij elkaar en individuallly. Het geluk! God zegene je.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Probeer kunt u terecht voor professionele hulp en hebben theraphy sessies bij elkaar en individuallly. Het geluk! God zegene je.</p>
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